What Men Really Think About Sex

 

What Men Really Think About Sex

As a sex therapist, I've had the opportunity to talk with thousands of men about their sexual feelings, sex lives, and fantasies. Obviously, I don't know what it's like to be a man, but I've had the privilege of hearing the male perspective on sexual relationships. And, while every man is unique, there are some recurring themes:

• Sex starts in the body. 

Men's desire for sex is physical, whereas women's desire is triggered by their mind, memory, or emotional feelings of connection. Men have a lot of testosterone coursing through their bodies, pushing and driving them to express themselves sexually. In young men, erections occur at the slightest provocation. When an adult man sees his wife or partner emerge from the shower naked, his body reacts. It's difficult to overestimate how his body chemistry steers his mind's psychology toward the sexual.

• Sex is a hunger for men. 

The desire for sex is similar to the desire for chocolate. Each sexual encounter has the exquisite possibility of a surprise-filled confection – perhaps creamy smooth, buttery rich, a little raw and bitter sweet, or silky sweet. His thoughts are captivated by the prospect of being delighted and surprised. A day isn't complete unless there's dessert.

• Sex is a form of energy.

 Sexuality adds potential and excitement to a man's intimate relationships. The hormonal energy drives him to pursue his life's purpose and work, as well as his partner. He pushes through the monotony of daily life, enticed by the fantasy of a sexual reward at the end of a long day.

• Sex is a source of excitement.

It's the most thrilling adventure of your life. His body is a fantastic pleasure machine that he wants to use to its full potential. Because orgasm is typically dependable and simple, a variety of sexual acts, positions, and rhythms appear to be an excellent way to explore and elevate his gratification. Every flirtation, smile, innuendo, shapely figure, or sexual image, whether imagined or real, has an effect on the male brain. His brainwaves erupt with elation at the mere mention of something or someone that reminds him of sex.

• Sex is synonymous with love.

Men feel at home when they are sexually liberated. Following the world's hurts and challenges, sex embodies love and care, providing soothing and support. While he may be accused of "wanting sex only," most men desire and feel a much deeper emotional connection than a simple bodily release. Making love literally creates a strong attachment to his partner and encourages relational generosity, faith, and optimism. Being desired by one's partner can be the most reassuring aspect of a relationship.

• He expresses his love through sex. The moment his partner turns on is frequently described as the most sexually satisfying moment by men. Men find it perplexing when they are labelled selfish because of their preference for sexual connection. In their hearts, they long for mutual, exquisite bodily pleasure. He frequently concocts and fantasises about how to make things better for her, pleading for information about her erotic desires in order to improve as a lover.

While most women prefer an emotional connection before a physical connection, for men, a sexual connection is frequently required to feel safe enough to be vulnerable emotionally. Finally, male sexual drive in a relationship is a gift – it is an additional path to love.

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